Relaxation for mindfulness: Calming the body and mind

 Relaxation — and how we achieve it — is personal. Nattu/Flickr

We garden. We put on headphones. We fold ourselves into an overstuffed chair with hot tea and our favorite author.

Relaxation — and how we achieve it — is personal. Here at Self-Haven, you’ll find resources to help you unwind, from simple, soothing photography to professionally guided relaxation sessions. Mindfulness often means time for quiet reflection, and there is calming support in this space.

When we’re relaxed, whether it’s from an enjoyable activity, sleep or simple peace of mind, our body changes. The effects are similar to what happens during a massage, where the release of physical tension finds its way to the entire body. 

The University of Minnesota’s massage therapy school breaks down what happens: Our heart rate slows, the body increases production of serotonin, a chemical that promotes positive emotions, and our blood pressure drops. That’s what it feels like for stress to melt away.

Sometimes, however, life throws us circumstances that make it difficult to get there. How do we cast away our cares when they seem so present? When we clear our mind with yoga, meditation or music, for example, we center our perspective. Certain techniques as fundamental as paying attention to the rhythm of your breathing can have a calming effect. The result is often that we cut through the noise.

Deep breathing is a great place to begin alleviating stress, and here’s a technique courtesy of WebMD. Put your left hand on your abdomen and your right hand on your chest. Slowly fill your lower lungs with air so that your left hand rises when you breathe in, and your right hand remains still. Now, slowly exhale, and repeat the process eight to 10 times.

That’s just the beginning. There’s so much more to see, hear and feel, and we invite you to explore.

Food for the whole self: An introduction to our resources on nutrition

"Food is our common ground, a shared experience." Ted Eytan/Flickr

Nothing brings us back to earth like a simple, satisfying meal shared in the company of people we care about.

James Beard, the celebrated chef and author, put it eloquently: “Food is our common ground, a universal experience.” He meant that when we break bread together, we feed more than our bodies: We reset and recharge what makes us whole.

In the Physical Wellbeing section of Self Haven you'll also find articles on everything culinary, nutritious and communal about food. We call it “Nourish.” In the spirit of presenting food as a basic part of holistic wellness, you’ll find informative videos, articles about making good food decisions and different ways to have fun in the kitchen.

It sounds obvious, but oftentimes life divides our attention away from watching what we eat, and eating is an essential part of self care. It’s easy to forget that eating to little, too much or eating poorly can have long-lasting effects on our mood, our energy or productivity, and even our relationships.

Food is essential to physical, social and spiritual health. And here’s the good news: Anyone can begin with his or her next meal. Good, colorful food from the earth is a great place to start.

Eating healthily — and eating together — is restorative to our well-being. In fact, mental health counselors recently told The Wall Street Journal that cooking is proven to relieve anxiety and depression. They found it helps to “soothe stress, build self-esteem and curb negative thinking by focusing the mind on following a recipe.”

The website Eater noted that psychologists call that “behavioral activation,” meaning by “increasing goal-oriented behavior and curbing procrastination,” we feel accomplished. The rewards for healthy eating are high, and we hope you enjoy the resources we’ve collected.

The Journal article began this way: “Many cooks know what a sanctuary the kitchen can be.”

When a plan comes together, life is good. Especially if the result is delicious.