IN-NETWORK with Blue Cross Blue Shield!

IN-NETWORK with Blue Cross Blue Shield!

Exciting update! Now accepting Blue Cross Blue Shield for HIPAA compliant video-based mental health counseling. (Also in-network with Aetna, Cigna, United Healthcare, and Tricare Select & Prime!)

Ladies - Relax in the comfort of your own space while you receive professional one-on-one guidance tailored to your specific needs. Melissa Garner, LMHC is a compassionate and experienced Licensed Mental Health Counselor, practicing since 2010.

Ready to get started? Visit www.self-haven.com/private-session

Specialties include working with women recovering from anxiety, OCD, self-esteem, depression, trauma, toxic relationships, and burn-out.

Offering a variety of therapeutic techniques including evidence-based mental health counseling, personalized coaching and mentorship, art therapy, and guided mindfulness/relaxation training.

Learn more: www.self-haven.com/private-session

Licensed to provide services in Florida only. License # MH11872

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Why Do People Stay in Abusive Relationships?

Why Do People Stay in Abusive Relationships?

I sat down with the amazing Meredith for Real: The Curiouis Introvert to discuss the importance of recognizing an abusive relationship, and how to get help.

“A compassionate look at why people stay in abusive realtionships, and how to help. In this podcast, we explore the different types of abuse, the emotional, practical, and cultural obstacles of leaving, how to leave when you're ready, and how to support a loved one in a toxic relationship.”

How to Experience Self-Confidence

How to Experience Self-Confidence

The search for self-confidence

We all want to feel more self-confident.  We do our best to face scary situations bravely whether we feel brave or not.   We try to be true to ourselves and trust our intuition.

I want to give you a way to open up, face life, and feel less afraid.  I want you to feel strong, to feel safe, and to face life with arms wide open.  We need times of retreat and comfort, but we also need times of reaching out to embrace all  life has to offer.

The Importance of Boundaries & Self-Care in Relationships

The Importance of Boundaries & Self-Care in Relationships

I had the pleasue of sitting down with my good friend, Meredith the Curious Introvert, to discuss the importance of boundaries, self-care, and relationships. If we approach awareness with a sense of curiosity, we are less likely to judge ourselves for it.

“The words boundaries & self-care sound like words involving just you, but Licensed Mental Health Counselor, Melissa Garner, explains how without these elements within relationships, resentment & burnout can happen. Stay to the end where she shares the 3 Cs of self-care.”

Yogic Relaxation: The Ultimate Guide To Yoga Relaxation Techniques

Why Yoga Is So Effective for Relaxation and Stress Relief

In our busy, overstimulated world, finding ways to relax can feel almost impossible. Fortunately, yoga for relaxation offers a gentle, science-backed solution that helps calm both the mind and body. This ancient practice combines movement, breathing, and mindfulness to create lasting peace and balance.

Below, we’ll explore why yoga is effective for relaxation, simple techniques you can start today, and the latest research behind the benefits of yoga for stress relief.

The Science Behind Yoga for Relaxation

Yoga works because it engages the mind-body connection — uniting breath, movement, and focus. Studies show that consistent practice reduces levels of cortisol (the stress hormone), lowers blood pressure, and promotes relaxation by stimulating the parasympathetic nervous system, our natural “rest and digest” mode.

When we practice yoga, we send a clear signal to the body that it’s safe to relax, which improves sleep, boosts mood, and enhances emotional balance.

How Yoga Helps Reduce Stress and Anxiety

Regular yoga practice teaches mindfulness — the ability to notice thoughts without getting swept away by them. This awareness helps regulate emotions, ease tension, and promote calm even in stressful situations.

Research published in Frontiers in Psychology and the Journal of Alternative and Complementary Medicine confirms that yoga for stress relief can lower perceived stress, improve sleep quality, and support better mental health outcomes.

Simple Yoga Techniques for Relaxation

You don’t need a full class to feel the effects of yoga for anxiety and stress. Just a few minutes a day can reset your nervous system and restore calm. Try adding these soothing techniques to your routine:

  • Child’s Pose (Balasana): Releases tension in the back and shoulders and encourages deep, restful breathing.

  • Legs Up the Wall (Viparita Karani): A restorative pose that improves circulation and helps the body unwind before sleep.

  • Box Breathing: Inhale for four counts, hold for four, exhale for four, hold for four. Repeat several times to quiet the mind and lower stress.

  • Body Scan Meditation: Move awareness through each part of the body, releasing tightness and inviting relaxation.

Proven Benefits of Yoga for Relaxation

  • Reduces symptoms of anxiety and depression

  • Improves sleep quality and energy levels

  • Enhances mood and emotional resilience

  • Lowers blood pressure and heart rate

  • Increases overall sense of well-being and balance

These benefits can begin with just 10–15 minutes of yoga per day, making it one of the most accessible and effective natural stress-relief tools available.

The Bottom Line

If you’re looking for a simple yet powerful way to relax, yoga offers everything you need. Whether you practice for five minutes or fifty, the combination of mindful movement and breath can help you reconnect with calm, clarity, and inner peace.

Start small, be consistent, and let your practice grow — because relaxation isn’t something you chase; it’s something you create through presence.

Find Your Ideal Yoga Style and Mat

Find Your Ideal Yoga Style and Mat

Have you experienced the many benefits yoga has to offer? Discover the benefits of the practice as a whole and learn about finding the right style of mat to enhance your practice.

Is Emotional Intelligence a SuperPower?

Is Emotional Intelligence a SuperPower?

Emotional intelligence is an extremely important aspect of handling day-to-day life, and when used properly, it can really feel like a superpower. It involves recognizing feelings and emotions in others and regulating them in yourself, which makes interactions with other people much more satisfying and easier to address.

What Are the Health Benefits of Yoga?

What Are the Health Benefits of Yoga?

Why is yoga such a popular exercise option? It's the physical and mental health benefits that draw people from all over the world to the ancient practice. Find out more about the many health benefits of yoga.

Dealing With Emotional Abuse

Dealing With Emotional Abuse

Many people don't realize until it's far too late that not all signs of abuse manifest themselves as bumps, bruises and cuts. Physical abuse is a very real and important problem, yes - but emotional abuse is something that affects countless people around the country each year.